So so so true Victoria...I have always been a strong soul but also a very loving and giving one...trying to help and save others and seek their validation until I saw there was no respect, reciprocation or valuation towards all of my efforts...trying to fit in with other peoples expectations, demands and pressures and slowly depleting and losing myself through it all...I have detached, let go, focused on myself more and more and am a much stronger soul, able to stand up for myself and walk away from all things that no longer serve me...I will always create my own happiness and constantly look to evolving and growing in more ways than one!!!